a tip and don't get a rude response to it

You know i have been playing this game for a long time now, longer than id like to admit. I'm pretty hard on my guys when we raid but when i do a random i don't expect everyone to know everything, as long as when i offer a tip and don't get a rude response to it. I was in a random just yesterday with an undergeared tank that had no idea what he was doing, but he was the nicest guy so we wiped 8 or 10 times while he figured it out,euwowgold we cycled in and out 3 or 4 dps with 1 rogue that stuck around.

Point is, to say that people who have "been around the block" in this game are mostly elitist or don't wanna help you out isn't fair. Alot of us don't mind giving a new tank a few attempts in a heroic or sending 20 tells/hopping on vent to explain a raid encounter that we have on farm. If you are respectful and show common sense as you would if you went to a mechanic to ask him how to change the oil in you car, you will get respect in return.

If i am heading into a raid and don't have time i would say, "hey i am about to raid, send me a tell when i am done and ill see what i can to do to help out." but this is where people who require that help get upset and think they are being blown off. I don't not mind helping people but it isn't my job, so if i say i don't have time right now. Ask someone else or wait on me to get back with you.